Sunday, December 1, 2013

Viet cho ban cua toi


20-10-2012, một người bạn khá thân hồi Đại học ra đi .... Bàng hoàng...

29-11-2013, một người bạn chung lớp cấp 3 ra đi .... Shocked

Họ đều là những người rất trẻ, khỏe mạnh, đầy những kế hoạch cho tương lai ... vậy mà ... đột ngột, vội vã ra đi. Vậy mới biết, cuộc sống vốn đầy bất ngờ, ko ai biết được cái gì đang chờ mình ở tương lai....

Đó là lý do mà mình và Mèo lập ra cái resolution là mỗi tuần cố gắng hangout với 1 người bạn nào đó....

Mèo vẫn hay nói, dép còn có số huống chi là người....

Sáng chủ nhật bạn sẽ được đem đi an táng... yên nghỉ nhé, bạn của tôi .....

Monday, October 21, 2013

Hoang mang


Một tuần dài như cả 1 năm dài, mệt mỏi, chán nản, ức chế ... Làm sao để tâm an, để mọi thứ cho gió cuốn đi?

Tự nhủ là giờ cứ đợi 1 thời gian, cho tâm tĩnh lại, lòng ko còn gợn sóng nữa thì sẽ quyết định, mà sao thấy khó quá, cảm thấy muốn buông xuôi tất cả. Muốn tìm ai đó đủ tin tưởng để kể hết, chia sẻ hết tất cả mọi chuyện trong lòng.... Liệu nói ra sẽ nhẹ lòng hơn?

Tại sao khi người ta càng lớn, cuộc đời càng phức tạp? Không thể cứ mặc kệ thiên hạ để sống một cuộc đời bình dị sao?

Ngày xưa nếu chuyện tình của Romeo và Juliet vẫn tiếp tục, liệu họ sẽ có cuộc sống như thế nào? Sẽ hạnh phúc đến khi cả hai nhắm mắt lìa đời ở tuổi già, hay sẽ vì gia đình hai bên mà tan vỡ?

....... Liệu tình yêu của em có đủ mạnh để đi tiếp cùng anh? Và liệu anh có đủ vững tâm để đặt xuống tất cả, đi cùng em?

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Tired.....

That su met moi, lieu minh se con di duoc bao xa tren chuyen hanh trinh cua tinh yeu nay? Lieu sau nay co bao gio minh se phai noi voi con rang, ba me con o voi nhau chi vi nghia?

Dung lai hay tiep tuc?......

Lieu buong tay se la 1 cach giai thoat?

(Vai dong cho 2 tuan day met moi.....)

Sunday, October 13, 2013

Uc che

Uc che,uc che,cuc ky uc che....

Co the toi ko phai la dua con ngoan....nhung ko ai duoc quyen dung vao bo me toi....

Muon huy hon.....Ko co gi la vinh cuu....tinh yeu du sau dam ma song ko hanh phuc, thi tha cat dut 1 lan....

Friday, October 11, 2013

Note for a boring and tired time



Dao nay cu co cam giac kho chiu, buc boi trong long...


Proposal tuong dau la chuyen vui, di du lich tuong dau la chuyen vui ... ko ngo lai du thu chuyen rac roi va phien nao xay ra .... chung quy cung vi the dien va so moi nguoi noi nay no. Minh ko hieu, the dien va nhan xet cua nguoi khac quan trong den vay sao?

Chua bao gio cam thay viec duoc cau hon va di du lich la 1 ganh nang nhu bay gio....

Du da co tu an ui la thoi bo di, moi nguoi 1 quan niem song, nhung van cam thay rat am uc ...

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And I promise to myself, when my kid(s) grow up and find his true love,
-  As long as his partner loves him and is a good person (who shall show respect to the elders and be faithful), I won't care about that person's appearance, background, age, (and gender....)
-  When my kid proposes to his partner, I won't ask him not to public after the proposal and wait for those stupid formalities. And more important, I will never tell him that I don't consider his fiancee as my future daughter-in-law.
-  I will never force him to visit all the relatives, especially those not very related by bloodline... He can visit them if he's willing to. And neither will I ask him to buy gifts for them all, every single one.
-  I will let him decide everything for his wedding (wedding theme, follows tradition or not, how many guests, who to invite, venue, etc.), as long as it's not offensive to any religions, ethnic groups and countries.

Saturday, September 28, 2013

Proposal.....


I'm at home now... i mean, with my parents and bro, my 1st home.... Initially was to celebrate my bro's bd on 25-09, but ....turned out to be the "formal meeting" between our 2 families about our going-to-be-wedding.....

26 Sep 2013 was a special day to me .... It's supposed to be a normal day as usual, working, then hanging out with Momentumers.

At the time we reached home, I took a shower, of course, also as usual... After that, when I was drying my hair, he asked, "What gift do you want for your bd?". I was like, wth, my bd was 2 weeks ago, and we already celebrated, and he already bought me a bicycle, which I'm still lazy to wander around on it now hehe.... So I just said, wind chimes, as I always like those small and cute, with nice sound to hang at the windows.

So, he said, do you like if I give you some stuff made by me? Of course, as always...and, he gave me a notebook, which was always on the desk without me noticing =,= In the notebook, he drew the story so called "Legend of Bom Mip", which is what he calls me.... So touching, seriously touching, about how we met, how we've been together....Then, he asked me to close my eyes, and put on my hands a small box.... I missed a heartbeat... and when I saw the "Tiffany n Co." on the coral blue box, I really wanted to shout ......but couldn't say anything, just hug him....And so funny that, he said, ok now, we should follow the tradition, and that's when he kneeled down, offering the ring, and asked.....

And yes, that's how he proposed....

And, my answer was ......YES

So, if everything is going to plan, of course I DEFINITELY want it to follow what we plan, our wedding will be end of next year .... :)

Friday, September 13, 2013

Happy birthday 2013


A bit late now, cos my bd was on 11 Sep....but it's ok, since my bd date is not a happy day to many people. And I already hung out with friends on that day, and just cut the cake yesterday.

So, i want to say,

 HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME ^^

New age, new things waiting hehe

Although somehow I still have a feeling that I'm older, but it's ok. Everyone is older, not just me keke

And when my bf asked me what I want for bd gift, I kept thinking and realized, I have almost all I want: clothes, bags, cosmetics, fluffy toys, laptop, phone, jewelry, tablet .... that I couldn't think of something else that I really need. So, I realized how lucky and happy I am ^^

Keep the positive thinking......